Dear Ben,
I can't believe that a year has gone by already. Although, to be honest some days it feels like you have been gone for years. I think about you often and wonder how your life would be today. How would your trip to Europe have gone? Would you have come home engaged to Heather?
Aaron misses you too! I see it in his eyes when we talk about you, which is quite often. I know he misses his friend.
Things changed with the group when everyone got home. We didn't really ever have Friday night dinners. I think it forced all of us to realize that you were not coming back and well none of us liked it. Your parents came down and we all had a night with them. They are fantastic people! We had a lot of fun with them
reminiscing about the fun times. And of course we got nachos in honor of you with no black olives!
Your mom sent me pictures from your sisters wedding. She looked beautiful! I never realized how much you two looked alike. Although, I am sure she looks better in a dress than you! Your whole family is so proud of you. I think you would have been a little embarrassed at all the great things people have said about you. But they were/are all true. We were all blessed to have had you in our lives.
I have asked Aaron some things since you have been gone. And he replies with 'We can ask him when we see him again someday.' I guess I wasn't really thinking that way. I was to busy being sad to realize that we will someday get to see you again. And that is definitely something to be happy about!
We miss you down here but I know God is using you for great things in heaven. I bet you have already asked him about the theories you and JR used to argue about. I can't wait to hear the answer.
Until we meet again can you watch over Aaron? We are going to be in the Army for awhile and he needs guardian angels.
With love and respect,
Jackie

CPT Benjamin D. Keating
KIA 26 NOV 06
Kamdesh, Afghanistan